It wouldn't have been butter spread on the bread back in our kitchen on Farmer's Road, though - we only used margarine - usually Blue Bonnet, it seems, and since I didn't know any better, I always thought that was what butter tasted like. How wrong I was!
I didn't appreciate Mom's bread back then, and always wished my school lunch sandwiches were made of Wonder Bread instead. That's what all the other kids' sandwiches were made out of - I just knew it - that doughy, gooey, oh-so-white Wonder Bread. But I had to settle for Mom's homemade bread, with the holes here and there, which actually tasted like bread, and was good for me, too.
It's funny how some episodes from childhood will stick in the memory, imbedded there forever with each and every little detail so very precise, while other moments have drifted off into oblivion. One of those forever-memories for me takes place on a summer day in out kitchen on Farmer's Road. Pat Parkins was visiting with Rusty and Nancy, so it must have been a summer day when we were out of school and the dads were at work. It was lunchtime, and the five of us kids had really worked up an appetite exploring the woods that surrounded our house. But eventually hunger pangs would send us back to the house, and we would gather around the table.
Mom would mix up a batch of Kool-Aid in a Tupperware pitcher...
But she didn't serve it up on a fancy tray in glasses with straws and lemon and orange slices. No, we drank the sugary concoction out of plastic glasses and thought we were pretty special.
On this particular summer day from my memory, Mom and Pat had whipped up "Don't Be Fussy Sandwiches." Rather than sliced bologna, we often bought ours in a gigantic chunk, and to make it stretch, Mom would cut off a large piece and put it through the food grinder...
then she added chopped pickles, onions, and Miracle Whip, mixed it together, and slapped it between thick slices of homemade bread. Now, this was actually delicious, but we did have it pretty often, so on this particular day, one of us (probably me) piped up with, "Are we having this again?"
Pat replied, "Don't be fussy and eat your lunch!" Thus, they were forever known as -
"Don't Be Fussy Sandwiches."






